This all sounds like bad news, but the good news is that you can experience deep closeness with your partner as you bond in your love for your child. As you recover from your delivery, begin to get more sleep, and adapt to the new addition to your life, your interest in sex will slowly return. Every woman is different, and some women experience minimal effects on the sex life while others may take many months to return to their baseline. Remember not to judge your experience by the experiences of your friends; you may have a different reaction to your delivery than they do.
And remember to keep connected with your partner during this time of transition. It will ease the return to a healthy sexual relationship.