Breastfeeding: Frequently Asked Questions

If you’re expecting a baby or you’re a new parent, you probably have a lot of questions about breastfeeding. We’re here to provide answers and reassurance. Schedule a session with a lactation consultant if you have more questions or need specific guidance. 

Should I use baby bottles?

It depends on your baby. Some little ones may have a harder time going back to the breast after getting used to bottles, especially early on. That’s because milk flows more quickly from a bottle, so babies don’t have to work as hard to get fed, which can make breastfeeding feel a bit more challenging in comparison.

If you’re hoping to continue breastfeeding beyond the first few weeks, it’s best to avoid introducing bottles during the first month while your baby is still learning.

If you do need to supplement with a bottle, try offering it after a breastfeeding session. And if you’re looking for alternatives to bottles and nipples, a lactation consultant or your baby’s healthcare provider can guide you toward other gentle options, like finger, syringe or cup feeding.

Can I go out while breastfeeding?

Absolutely! Once you’re feeling recovered from delivery and ready for a well-deserved night out, go for it. In the first three to four weeks, though, you might find it easier (and even more enjoyable) to bring your little one along. Newborns are usually easy to carry and don’t need much in the way of gear.

If you’re planning to leave your baby with a trusted family member or babysitter, you can explore ways to make feeding smooth while you're away, like expressing (pumping) your milk. That way your baby can still enjoy the comfort and nourishment of your milk even in your absence. 

Can I breastfeed in public?

Yes, absolutely! In California, you have the right to breastfeed your baby in any public area — it's protected by law and fully supported. Many parents find that a blouse that unbuttons from the bottom or a sweater that lifts easily makes nursing on the go more convenient. Slings can also be great for discreet breastfeeding, and a light baby blanket or shawl can offer a little extra privacy if you’d like it.

You might also notice that shopping malls often have cozy lounges designed with breastfeeding parents in mind, and many stores now offer diaper-changing stations. It’s worth taking a little time to find the spots that feel most comfortable and welcoming for you and your baby.

Joining a support group for nursing mothers can also be a wonderful way to connect, share tips and get encouragement — especially when it comes to navigating outings with your little one. 

What about sex?

Embracing the early days of motherhood can be a beautiful, emotional journey. Staying physically close and emotionally connected with your partner can really help ease that transition. Still, it’s important to give your body time to heal. It’s best to wait on intercourse until your vaginal bleeding has stopped for a few days.

Remember, intimacy is about so much more than sex. Loving touch, shared laughter and quiet moments together all help keep the bond strong.

After giving birth, it’s completely normal for your sex drive to dip — things like hormonal changes, vaginal soreness and sheer exhaustion all play a role. Lower estrogen levels can also make the vaginal area feel drier than usual, so using a water-based lubricant may help things feel more comfortable. The key is to be patient with yourself and with each other as you adjust.

If you’re planning to be intimate, try feeding your baby beforehand. It can make your breasts feel softer and more comfortable and help reduce the chance of leaking. Still, some milk flow during stimulation or orgasm is normal — it’s just a sign that your body is working as it should!

And even if your period hasn’t returned yet, it’s still possible to ovulate while breastfeeding. So if you're not ready for another pregnancy, be sure to use some form of contraception.