The Hymen

The hymen is a subject of confusion and myth for a lot of people. Learn the basic medical facts about the hymen.

What Is It?

The hymen is a piece of tissue that lines the vaginal entrance. It has an opening that can be of any size, and the tissue can be thin or thick.

It should have an opening — otherwise your menstrual blood cannot come out and an opening would need to be created.

Typically, the hymen has an opening the size of your finger — or the size of a small tampon.

The Hymen and Virginity

You often hear about the hymen breaking with first intercourse. It can happen, but if a woman is relaxed during intercourse and has good lubrication and she or her partner has tried to stretch the hymen with fingers, then it likely won't break. So, you can't tell if someone is a virgin if they have a hymen.

Vaginal Exam and the Hymen

You don't need a pap smear until three years after you become sexually active or at age 21, but your doctor will do one before you start on birth control, if you've already become sexually active.

Your doctor will explain what will happen during your exam. It's not a comfortable exam, but if it's done gently, with a small speculum (which is inserted into the vagina to open it for the pap smear), then it won't tear your hymen.