Healthy Baby, Grateful Parent
was born 10 weeks early.
She was 2 pounds, 15 and 1/2 ounces.
Her backside could fit into the palm of my hand.
It's hard.
And I remember one of the nights that I was in there,
I was sitting at the isolette with my hands in there.
And a nurse came up to me and just put her hand
on my shoulder and she said, it's not your fault.
That compassion and empathy for others and the healing
that that gave me, you know, like it sets them apart.
To have this high level of a NICU right here in Santa Rosa
is amazing.
It was the care, really, that helped her to grow.
She's full of life.
She's very sweet.
She runs everywhere.
I think she loves her little NICU story.
Without the donors, my story would
be probably very different.
I just can't thank the generosity of this community
enough for what they have done to build
such an incredible NICU, an incredible team,
an amazing Shea house.
I mean, thank you will never do it justice.
An emergency C-section turned Kate Bernal-Hafner’s plans upside down. For Marie, her newborn daughter, Sutter Santa Rosa Regional Hospital would serve as home for much longer than Kate had anticipated.
Born 10 weeks early after an emergency C-section, Marie weighed just two pounds, 15 ounces. “Her backside could fit inside my hand,” Kate remembers.
The hospital moved Marie to its level III neonatal intensive care unit, or NICU. There she would get the dedicated 24-hour attention she needed along with access to life-saving equipment and technology. Once housed in the NICU’s isolette (an incubator for infants), Marie received constant monitoring and care from the hospital’s neonatal team until she was fully ready to leave.
Kate, too, was often with Marie in the NICU. Through the many difficult days and nights, what truly stood out for Kate about her experience was how deeply the team seemed to understand and offer reassurance.
“I remember, one of the nights I was sitting there, a nurse came up to me and put her hand on my shoulder, and she said, ‘It’s not your fault.’ That compassion and empathy, that feeling that gave me… it sets them apart.”
Whenever she sees Marie, now a lively, healthy child, Kate recalls her experience, grateful for the hospital’s loving and high-level of care.
“To have this high-level NICU right here in Santa Rosa is amazing. It was the care, really, that helped her to grow,” says Kate. “I just can’t thank the generosity of this community enough for what they’ve done to build such an incredible NICU, an incredible team, an amazing Shea House. Thank you will never do it justice.”
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